Christ Episcopal Church
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Riverton, New Jersey |
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Can you go home again? HOME. “an environment offering security and happiness …
a valued place regarded as a refuge or place of origin”. If there was ever a word that conjures up
vast floods of emotion it is this one.
But even an accurate dictionary definition only scratches the surface of what ‘home’ really means. Perhaps that is why so many best selling
songs have been written about it: Stephen Foster’s “Old Kentucky Home”, John Denver’s
“Country road take me home”, Simon and Garfunkel’s “Homeward bound” or the
old chestnut “Be it ever so humble, there’s no place like home” (not to mention
the refuge sought in “Show me the way to go home”!). These few examples only serve to emphasize
the powerful desire for a place of security, happiness and refuge. The tug is so powerful that I can recall more
than one Alzheimer’s patient coming up to me in nursing facilities and
pleading, “Can you take me home?” I remember one woman who, after asking me
that question, grabbed my hand and held on with such a grip that it took two
people to gently get her to let go. However, in spite of an
almost visceral desire and the tinting of nostalgia, home for many has rarely
lived up to the ideal. There are those for whom home was not or is not a
haven of quietness and peace. For others,
the loss of loved ones, be it through death or relocation, means there is no
longer a family homestead to return to.
Even for me, in spite of the fact that my parents are still in the
house I grew up in, it isn’t the same place.
In the last twenty-five years my mother has replaced all the furniture
and the walls are all different colors.
The only exception is the dining room.
But even in that place of family dinners innumerable and extraordinaire,
there is now a bay window, seasonally decorated, which offers an unimpeded
view of other 75-year-old colonials on 40 x 100 lots. When I complained about this many years
ago, a friend of mine said, “Perhaps Thomas Wolfe was right, ‘You can’t go home again’”. I believe this desire for
home is so strong because it is a longing implanted within us. It comes from our souls’ desire for our
heavenly home with God. Jesus promises
that there are many dwelling places prepared by him for us. But while these are part of God’s eternal
promise, our Lord does not seek to leave us without any place to hang our
spiritual hat in the here and now. For
‘the home of God is among mortals’
(Rev. 21:3). Where on earth might that
be? I believe it is in
church. As John Bowers so eloquently
expresses in Hymn 51: This is the Lord’s house, Home of all his people, School for the faithful,
refuge for the sinner, Rest for the pilgrim,
haven for the weary, All find welcome. The church is the place where
we can find short of heaven, the kind of peace, security, and joy for which
the human heart longs. And what I find
most wonderful is that (in spite of Thomas Wolfe), with God you can always
come home again. And while there are
externals that do change, God’s welcome mat and hospitality are eternal. So, if you’ve been away,
be it for a half a summer or half a year, why not come to See
you in September?! |