Christ Episcopal Church
|
|
|
Riverton, New Jersey |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Giving up piety for Lent pi·e·ty (pº“¹-t¶) n., pl. 1. The state or quality of being
pious, especially: a. Religious devotion and reverence to God. b.
Devotion and reverence to parents and family: filial piety. 2. A devout act, thought, or statement. (The American Heritage Dictionary). One of the most
helpful volumes in my voluminous collection of books is entitled Holy
Humor. It has been out of print a
while, but I still try to get extra copies of it to give to those who are
beginning their ordained ministry. I
gave a copy to a recent ordinand, and begged his indulgence and hoped he
wouldn’t be insulted by the gift. I
explained that over the years I have been accused of impiety by some because
I tend to laugh and joke – a behavior that was considered unbecoming a priest
of the church. “I don’t consider myself impious,” I continued, “It is just that my piety is based on the
passage from Nehemiah, ‘the joy of the Lord is my strength’”. “That’s all right” my new colleague
responded, “I gave up piety for
Lent”. I don’t know when
devotion to God became humorless. It
certainly isn’t the Bible’s fault. I
did a quick word count: joy/joyful occurs 39 times, rejoice 175 times, and
glad / gladness, 151 times; whereas weep is found 55 times, mourn 57 times
and sorrow 50. The Hebrew Scriptures
are loaded with puns, which generally don’t translate that way. When The Book of Common
Prayer mirrors the Bible in the mirth department : joy / joyful – occurs 121 times, rejoice – 76 times, glad
/ gladness – 22 times; while on the other hand weep shows up 4 times,
mourn(ing) 11 times, and sorrow 29 times.
I figured that there
must be something in the church’s literature that served to squeeze the joy
from our faith. So I checked some of
the sternest characters I could think of.
Yet even many of these folks seem less heavy than their reputations
suggest. Here’s a sample: Augustine of Hippo, “The Christian should be an alleluia
from head to foot”. Francis deSales,
“Humor is the foundation of reconciliation”.
Thomas More, “It is possible to live for the next life and still be
merry in this”. Martin Luther, “Faith always has as a companion
joy in the Holy Spirit:” and "If you're not allowed to laugh in heaven,
I don't want to go there”. According
to these leading lights of faith, giving up piety as commonly understood is
probably a very good thing to do.
Being joyful in church, and even laughter itself, is not only appropriate,
but necessary if we believe that it is in our public worship that come
closest to the experience of the divine – indeed heaven itself. There are certainly times when
humor and laughter are not appropriate.
When we consider our Lord’s Passion during Holy Week, or our own
brokenness and sinfulness (although being healed and forgiven should make us
happy). There are things that are
inappropriate to laugh at, like other peoples’ misfortune. Yet even at funerals I would suggest,
laughter is fine when reflecting upon a happy memory as is joy when
considering the eternal life being experienced by the deceased. I
generally like to suggest prayers and disciplines that lead us to greater
devotion during the Lenten season. I
ask that you consider the following that can be done right here in May the joy of the Lord be your strength! |